❤️ How to be a power couple: the life dinner method
by Joe · 21 things on NewTwos
- Plan dinner, on the first of the month, to talk about these questions with your partner
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- Personal Reflection on Last Month
- Ask yourself:
- What could I have done better?
- What was I proud of?
- What's causing me anxiety?
- What am I worried about for the future?
- Relationship Reflection on Last Month
- Ask each other:
- What's one little thing we noticed about each other that we love?
- Are there things we learned about from our relationship?
- How might we want to improve moving forward?
- Personal Goals for Next Month
- Ask yourself:
- What do I want to achieve over the next 4 weeks?
- Guiding principles:
- No stonewalling. Don't close up or detach while having tough conversations.
- Be in the moment. Approach everything from a place of love. Ask thoughtful questions.
- Prepare ahead of time. Keep a running journal of things you want to discuss.